Audience: Fellow Students of BGB who are just as sad as I am to leave
Purpose: to tell about my time in London and what I remember most from being here.
My days are numbered here across the Pond. Only a mere three and a half days stand between me and the good ol’ US of A. Oddly enough, I believe I may be just as excited to return home as I was waiting to venture over to Europe. Maybe it’s a combination of several factors, most of which include missing my family and friends (and my dog too)? London has, nevertheless, become my second home this summer. I walk the streets and pathways of London as I would in Waco, with a sense of certainty and a dash of confusion thrown in every now and then. I have been trying to soak in every last detail of this immense and cultured city. And no matter how much I’m ready to return to the States, London will always hold a soft spot deep within my heart.
What will I miss about London exactly? For lack of a better explanation, everything. There is almost a magical quality to a town you know nothing about, other than the fact they have a queen and a bridge. Add in the reality I have never ventured outside of our country’s broders before, and this study abroad experience was a whole new animal for me. What other town politely tells you to look left or right before crossing the street? Or no matter what news a person is informing you of, albeit good, bad, or indifferent, their accents make their statements always sound apologetic and sincere? Where else is it socially unacceptable to wear a t-shirt and Nike shorts unless you are taking a quick run through Hyde Park? Because that certainly is my wardrobe during the Indian days of summer back in the South. Proper is the best way I can adequately describe this country. I have yet to meet a rude or pretentious Englishmen, which reminded me of all the kind folks I left back in West Texas. I guess in that aspect, once you look past its initial surface qualities, England isn’t too terribly different from my homeland at all.
As I sit here trying to recall every significant difference between the United States and England, I keep coming back to the eerily similar qualities of both sets of inhabitants. While their attire and hairstyles can be construed as a little more fashion forward than Texas’ (surprisingly pink hair or combat boots hasn’t exactly caught on yet back home), I still notice the random acts of kindness people subtly perform without expecting a thank you or any sort of recognition in return. Whenever I appear lost, which is quite frequently these days, I have always had someone randomly ask if I need help with directions or if I know where I’m headed. Or there are men on the tube who graciously vacate their seats in order for an elderly woman to sit down for a brief moment between stops. The inhabitant’s characteristics are what made me fall in love with London. The sights, sounds, and outer appearances are what I found endearing and never made me lost interest.
London simply wouldn’t be London if it weren’t for the exterior aspects of the city. Driving on the “wrong” side of the rode, tills instead registers, cheers instead of your welcome, and snogging instead of kissing are just a few variances in the English culture. Piccadilly Circus has all the glitz and flash of Time Square, minus the cloud gracing buildings and random nudists streaking about the streets. Harrods is immense as well as infamous, and for good reason. Where else are you supposed to find pastries, coffee, champagne, teas from around the world, luggage, infant clothing, Cartier watches and wedding gowns all in one place? Besides Wal-Mart, it’s a one-stop shop that literally has something for everyone. Then there are the little nuances of London that just make it purely delightful and unique. Brightly colored splashes of rich turquoise, raspberry, violet, and crimson cover many household doorways. The knobs of said doors aren’t located in their usual side placement, but rather in the direct center as if not to pick favorites with sides. Also, when running through Hyde Park, you are guaranteed to see something new and different every time you enter the gates. Just the other day while on an afternoon jog, a friend of mine stumbled upon a barely visible pathway that led to stairs nearly taken over by overgrowth. Areas like these make it feel as though London is cloaked with secrets, daring you to enter her city walls and find them for yourself. Everything about her is old and majestic. Whether you’re walking along Oxford Circus or casually strolling past Buckingham Palace, nothing seems purely ordinary about this city. It’s one of the many qualities I find special about her.
Coming from a small West Texas town most certainly allowed me to grow up sheltered. I was more than excited to visit so many “foreign” countries, only to return feeling foreign myself. I never expected to fall in love with a city so decisively and quickly. I am going to miss being able to drink hot tea at any hour of the day and have it be socially acceptable. I am going to miss the wonderful accents and fish & chips served at almost every meal of the day. But most of all I am going to miss the sense of having so much freedom and the responsibility of doing what I want, when I want, and yet being so irresponsible with that same freedom I was given by doing what I want when I want. It’s hard to understand what people mean when they tell you “it’s a once in a lifetime opportunity.” But here in my last few days in London, I can honestly agree that this will most certainly happen only once in this small town girl’s life. And I could not be more grateful for that opportunity.



